Woman,High Education and Career

             Nowadays,it is important for a girl to score first in class,than she must learn how to cook.I don't know since when modernization had brought a girl to the new perspective of life. I remembered my late grandmother said,they have no worries to excel in study ,a man will marry them and handle them with care afterwards.But,that reason seems invalid right now.A girl need to compete with boys.Because it is the only way she could secure herself,while waiting for her prince charming.

             Let me take myself for example.Because I am the eldest in my sibling,it is a must for me to think about protecting my family.For that,I need a big career in life.Having a boyfriend will surely distract myself from getting high score in exams .Plus,I need to commit myself in relationship.I couldn't handle relationship and study at the same time,adding family to it some more!*faint .Reluctantly,I pushed away any single man that tried to be close with me.Of course it hurts me,you know there was a lot of future doctor and dentist to be at that time.But, I believe in fate, more than I believe that couple in university will bring you to a bride to be.And lotsa men I knew doesn't want to stay in friend zone. hahaha *jokes.We still need to mind our gap.

             So I choose my study instead,and focus on how to use that knowledge to build my career .It helps really! .Even though I didn't yet start my posting and my income is not as much as they would pay me for my PRP. I could give 'duit raya' this year,bought mom a cloth she want,I could treat my family for a dinner.That was the happiest moments I have in my entire life.I swear! .It was the moment I felt that the education that my parents had struggling to give me for the past five year,paid off ! All my worries end and I want to provide more.

             What next?. If I choose my career.I will surely get myself and my love one secure.But,will I be happy living  this life with no partner.Will I get a person who is willing to live with me for his entire life,knowing that I had achieved a great career.Now I understood why Dato Siti married to Dato K.Because at the highest point in a woman career.Only a great man will secure her to the end of her life.That is tough man.I salute you!

Did man have the same thought like this? I wonder and I'm really curious.

p/s : Don't worry.I still have my faith on.And according to my friends, I look younger than my real age*self pat my head. hehe :p

         Enjoy the MV!



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